After several ruptures and great disappointments, it happens that the doubt settles in us in the choice of the spouse, the person who will be by our side for the rest of our life.
Yesterday’s failures plunge us into confusion, of course fearing to fall back into the same mistakes of yesterday since this time it is serious.
Many couples, having rushed and not having analyzed all the parameters, end up today by tearing up simply because the man and the woman, the two of them did not take enough time to know each other but were based on superficial things.
There are two main points that we emphasize and put for the consideration of anyone who wishes to get involved.
1) Marriage is a spiritual act.
In addition to its serious and sacred nature, marriage is also a highly spiritual act.
It is an alliance totally based on the spiritual and all must understand it as such.
From the moment it is done, when you are married, the man isn’t alone any longer , he is also the lady and lady isn’t a single person either, she is also her husband.
That’s why the holy scriptures say you become one flesh.
2) Make sure you are mature because marriage is for good and for bad till death do y’all part.
While it is good to be optimistic, know that in marriage there are sometimes a lot to overcome.
Woman, You must laugh with your husband and cry when he cries.
Man, you too must be a shadow for the woman, a defense, a protection in all senses, that she represents everything for you, that she is of primary order.
Yes, your wife should come before work, before friends, before parents and even before children if you think that you are yourself before the children because your wife is yourself.
Nothing is impossible so when the hard times come you have to face them together.
Don’t leave your man because he just lost his job, got fired, no don’t. On the contrary, support him and be a motivating force for him.
This is also what marriage is before you commit, be prepared, expect all